http://master.disqus.com/enFri, 22 Aug 2008 20:29:34 -0000http://herowner.com/2008/04/27/how-to-master-the-master/#comment-3085431<p>i have an idea. What if you were to take questions about Master/slave lifestyle that were emailed to you and posted the question that was emailed to you (to ensure the privacy of the questioning party) and answer it. i know a lot of people (including myself) who have questions but they are too personal to ask in open forum. Just a thought..</p>jerushaFri, 22 Aug 2008 20:29:34 -0000http://herowner.com/2008/04/27/how-to-master-the-master/#comment-3085430<p>I absolutely agree with you cindy. That is exactly the reason why us life-stylers need to hold each other accountable, why my slave holds me accountable. This is very important to understand, especially since my slave also has work(ed) in a similar space as you have.</p><p>I have no tolerance for those who are abusive bullies, hiding behind something as beautiful as BDSM</p>MasterWed, 30 Apr 2008 12:26:00 -0000http://herowner.com/2008/04/27/how-to-master-the-master/#comment-3085429<p>It is difficult for outsiders to see the difference between abusive situations and play between consenting adults. I used to work with domestic violence victims &amp; there definitely are a few people out there who are truly violent abusers who try to cover by calling it BDSM.</p><p>However, I was pleased to find out about places like <a href="http://alt.com" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="alt.com">alt.com</a> recently. I think that networking and participating within a community of like-minded individuals can help protect people from the real predators.</p>Original CindyWed, 30 Apr 2008 12:21:13 -0000