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Re: Custom Puppygirl Gear

rnsagi — Mon, 13 Jul 2009 14:16:39 -0000

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já vi slaves mumificados com tape e os resultados são muito bons

Re: Sexy Free Email For The BDSM Inclined

slaveblog — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 12:54:29 -0000

Yes, there are still plenty of spots left. Simply write to teh address mentioned and we will set you up as soon as I can.

Re: Sexy Free Email For The BDSM Inclined

fate — Sun, 16 Nov 2008 21:53:41 -0000

Would there happen to be any usernames left?

Re: How To Unleash The Bastard In Me

Suzanne — Wed, 05 Nov 2008 21:04:28 -0000

would youenjoy beating the shit out of her? and so she could also?

Re: Custom Puppygirl Gear

Angel — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 20:45:59 -0000

Its not impossible, I have a small talent for creating real things from drawings.
I've been looking at these images for some time now and I think that the first two would be easy enough to create, I don't think the tail is within my skill set but the muzzle and the pads seem very possible.
I just wanted to let you know not to give up hope

~angel

Re: BDSM News For All

Mollena — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 00:05:28 -0000

I'm in the process of gathering years of my writings onto my site, and it is most certainly kinkcentric.

~Mollena

Re: The T-Shirt Challenge - Slaves Only!

Juicymelons — Fri, 03 Oct 2008 05:06:49 -0000

sorry but i'm skint or i'd take you up on the challange!

Re: How To Train Your Slave

His grace — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 12:55:40 -0000

Ms,
I completely agree with you. I know for me I have to know the "why" behind everything; I always have ever since I was a little girl. I had a math teacher once who had to go allll the way back to Egyptian times to help me understand fractions. Poor teacher but once I knew the why I became a big fan of fractions and to this day enjoy doing them.

I believe more people want to understand the reason for a direction and good communication allows for that.

Thank you for your responses.

~His grace

Re: BDSM News For All

Masters slave — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 17:45:24 -0000

You can probably find more blogs if you just go to one of the blogs you already listed...I know Meg (persephone) has a bunch on her blog...I have a few different ones on mine http://www.keptchained.blogspot.com - you could also add fetlife.com the Bdsm community - its sort of like facebook for the kinky.

respectfully

Ms

Re: BDSM News For All

luna — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 14:13:32 -0000

I have an RSS for Newest Essays on my Resource Site The Iron Gate. I don't have it published for everyone to see, but here it is: http://www.the-iron-gate.com/feeds/essays.php

You might also like my blog. It's in the link for my comment.

Re: How To Train Your Slave

Masters slave — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 07:55:03 -0000

I know for me its more than understanding what is expected of me, I like to know the why behind it. Sometimes there isn't a why which makes the task more difficult for me because if it doesn't make sense to me I find it harder to remember and comply. When I understand it, I find that it is so much easier to integrate the task and comply with ease.

There are always little things that are "because I said so" but for the most part my rules, and directions have a reason behind them that allows me to understand. I totally agree that just dictating and punishing for non-compliance doesn't work. In fact I know for me this has the opposite effect, I become defiant and agitated.

I want to please, my goal is not to disobey and most infractions are unconscious which is when Master brings brings me back, grounding me and refocusing me on the task.

Respectfully,

Ms

Re: Sexy Free Email For The BDSM Inclined

jerusha — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 17:43:31 -0000

I am interested but I must first ask Master's permission. Hopefully He will call soon..

Thank you for your generousity :-)

Kind Regards,
jerusha

Re: Milk Your Puppy, Master - BDSM 101 #8

jerusha — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 10:55:15 -0000

Wow..this strip fascinated me. I had never heard of forced lactation before. I find the concept quite interesting. I think this particular comic strip is my favorite because it is sure to send me on a research frenzy. Thanks for posting this.

Kind regards,
jerusha

Re: Relinquishing My Leniency

jerusha — Tue, 16 Sep 2008 01:46:16 -0000

I, personally, would much rather my Master be strict with me than not. I feel safer when I know He will back up what He says. Consistency is always welcomed. I know it takes a lot of self-discipline to discipline a slave. Emotions can easily dissuade one from doing what one must

Re: Master’s Fault Not The Slaves

jerusha — Tue, 16 Sep 2008 01:41:33 -0000

A most informative article. Thank you for the link to communication. It sums up what I have been trying to tell a few people. Perhaps they are visual learners, I'll print this off and see what difference it makes to my tutorees.

Re: For You

jerusha — Tue, 16 Sep 2008 01:37:44 -0000

Aww..that has got to be the sweetest thing I've read in a long time..

Re: BDSM As Gay Movement Of The 21st Century

jerusha — Tue, 16 Sep 2008 01:30:31 -0000

You are so on target on this one. The United States is closed minded on this matter. I really do not understand it either.

I had a blog at one time and I exposed my lifestyle. I got some very verbally abusive remarks from both genders. The females insisted that I was setting back the feminist movement. I did not realise that I had the ability to do that all by my lonesome self. There were men who commented telling me that they would like to rape me or make me their "bitch". The worst part is that I had a couple of stupid people who noted that they would track me down and kill me. Utter nonsense.

Many Evangelical Christians denounced BDSM as "ungodly" and "perversion". As far as I am concerned they are WAY off base. Last time I read the Bible, Paul stated "Wives submit to your husbands". The old marriage vows read "Love, Trust, Honor and...OBEY". Though the weddings that I have been to have conveniently omitted the word obey. For those folks that believe that God only wants them to have sex in the missionary position for the purpose of procreation, they ought to take another look at the Old Testament, if they took the time to figure out what Song of Solomon was talking about they would probably have their knickers in a wad. I have on tried to educate some of these ignorant people. As you may have guessed, I have been kicked out of more than one church. They said they would take me back if I would apologise and take back what I said. I would rather drink household chemicals than to prostrate myself and beg for forgiveness from them!

As for slavery, America prides itself on freedom of expression and freewill. If America truly believes in freewill, then why does it not recognise my right to relinquish my rights and pursue happiness the way I want to. Hypocrites the lot of them! It annoys me to no end.

Whew! I think I'm done venting for now.

Re: Bondage, slaves, Masters - What Content Do You Want?

jerusha — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 23:21:31 -0000

For what it is worth, Sir. I think alt.com is way overrated. If given the choice, I'd pick your site hands down.

Let's see. You've got comics, commentary of toys, question and answers, and wonderful insight into yours and your slave's relationship.

What would make this site better? I wonder if your readers would like to submit TASTEFUL lifestyle-oriented erotica. I know a lot of my friends (non-lifestyle) who read bondage erotica.

I honestly don't think that you are lacking in content so much as the lack of exposure. Do you have a banner that you can have others post to their blogs, emails, or websites that would advertise and link to this site?

I found you through a Google search. One of the things that drew me to site was the fact that it was tastefully done. I have visited other sites and it was mainly pics of naked girls being tied up. As anyone who is serious in the lifestyle can attest to, that is only a small portion of the overall relationship.

I don't know how much this helps.

Respectfully,
jerusha

Re: Bondage, slaves, Masters - What Content Do You Want?

jerusha — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 23:08:00 -0000

I absolutely love your vision for this site. I am glad you posted the Q&A on here.

I had a vision to create a site like you described in your entry. I have one big problem. For personal reasons (if you want to know them I will email them to you, but I would prefer not to discuss them in an open forum), I cannot disclose my identity or have a site traced back to me or my Master.

If you would like me to guest write articles, I would be more than happy to oblige. I love this site and your slave's site as well. If I were not so broke, I would contribute monetarily. I believe it is a VERY worthy cause. You have my email, if you would like to contact me, my Master approves.

Kind regards,
jerusha

Re: From Trying To Being Master And Slave

tanisha — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 02:29:37 -0000

One small thing I do, which makes me feel better is respond with, "I'll have to ask my Husband."
It is a small conceit, and as a slave, I feel that it helps people I deal with in the world realize that there are still some women who treasure their husband's opinions and decisions.
I am not ready to use Master in polite society.
So when a clerk asks if I want a credit card, I'll respond, "I really should check with my husband before opening a new account."
Or when she asks if I want this dress in red as well, I say, "My husband prefers me in blue."
Just small ways to impress upon them that my husband matters to me, and is a greater authority than they are, or than I am.

Thank you for your thoughts.

Re: From Trying To Being Master And Slave

jerusha — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 18:38:40 -0000

Wow! This I believe was your most moving entry. I could feel your conviction in this entry. This entry really moved me.

Re: Masters, slaves - I Challenge You To an Interview

jerusha — Sat, 30 Aug 2008 15:15:01 -0000

I was surfing the web for BDSM stuffs and I found this article absolutely blood-boiling! I thought I would share this with you. The following article was written in response to why the media only portrays females as Doms instead of male/female doms.

I don’t know why the difference, I find pictures of women holding a whip absolutely repulsive and I can think of many much more enjoyable things I would like to do with a woman.

I see previous answers have trotted out the great defence of BDSM, ‘people who don’t like it don’t understand’, are 'immature' and even 'unenlightened'. What arrogance!

I don’t like Paedophilia, is there something I am missing there too?

Just because people find BDSM repulsive, it doesn’t follow that they don’t understand. It’s perfectly valid to hold the opinion that someone who gets turned on by violent sex has got something wrong in their head.

The United Nations World Health Organisation categorises sexual sadism and sexual masochism as mental health and behavioural disorder in the international classification of diseases handbook (ICD10). Are they Immature and unenlightened too?

The whole thing boils down to the fact that some sad sacks who get turned on by abusing, humiliating and brutalising women have invented this mystical fabrication called BDSM which excuses the brutality in their eyes, and sadly in the eyes of some women.

If it wasn’t for a few people believing this nonsense, men who abuse to turn themselves on would be known by their true name

The accused.

Edit

Starlight

It’s worse than that.

I do understand.

Why do I understand? Because I did find the person to inspire me. The one. And I know they felt the same way too but a friend introduced them to sadists and guess what? They ended up in an abusive relationship some sick sad sack who gets turned on humiliating abusing and brutalising women.

And before you jump to a conclusion, no they had no ‘Longing’ before sadism poisoned their mind. Quite the opposite In fact, we found it odd and slightly amusing when the subject of sadism came up. Long story short they got chatting to sadists, ironically when I raised concerns I was told that they felt 'safe', I was dumped, and the person I knew no longer existed. Why do you think this is?

My opinion is that sadism acts exactly like a cult, and recruited someone who had no interest in it, to make them the plaything of abusers. A piece of meat to be used and past on. Don’t you ever wonder why abusive relationships within sadism rarely last?

Yes sadism has lasted for centuries; it is named after the Marquis de Sade who first documented his warped desires. Someone I might add who spent most of his adult life in mental institutions and prison because his preferences where so offensive, as have many sadists throughout history.

So you see, its not a case of ‘not understanding’ (again) I understand perfectly what sadists are about. I have read all the dogma and all the excuses, however I use scepticism and I find it full of contradictions and deliberate deceit like all cults.

That’s why I come here and give my opinion, every one is allowed to hold an opinion arn't they?

Except by cults that is.

Re: Ask The Master And Slave And Be Anonymous Doing It!

Unowned — Sat, 30 Aug 2008 14:23:35 -0000

I am aware the the dom has many more responsibilities in any type of BDSM relationship, especially regarding the physical and emotional safety and well-being of his/her slave.

Where did you learn things like the art of safe and effective bondage? Was it difficult in the beginning to establish trust boundaries and pain threshold boundaries with your slave?

I hope this is not too personal, I'm merely curious.

-E

PS- I would also like to thank you for allowing me to be friends with your slave. It's a pleasure corresponding with her.

Re: Ask The Master And Slave And Be Anonymous Doing It!

His grace — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 02:40:29 -0000

jerusha,
Thank you.

In warmth,
~His grace

Re: Ask The Master And Slave And Be Anonymous Doing It!

jerusha — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 21:42:42 -0000

i love that you are doing this *smiles